Currently

It's almost Goodbye September, Hello October! So I decided to do a little bit of catching up on current events. This month has been smoother and I have exciting things coming up.

Focusing on: School and getting ahead of the game. It's only been the first week, but I have taken on six classes and doing everything I can to not fall back. I've channeling my inner Hermoine and pouring myself into reading, writing papers, and studying. 

Reading:  Rupi Kaur's Milk and Honey. Classes have been keeping me busy with reading. But I have made time for my personal reading. I sneak in a poem or two every other day. The poems I have read have more of a personal affect, so I take it all in rather than rush through. 

Watching: That 70's Show, Scandal, Once Upon a Time, and The Voice. Allen and I are always watching re-runs on Netflix; and for now we are watching That 70's Show. I'm so glad Scandal and Once Upon a Time have returned, my Thursdays and Sundays feel more complete now. I normally do not keep up with The Voice after the blind auditions, but this season one the lead singers from one of my favorite bands, Sleeper Agent, is on the show! Alex Kandel who is on Team Gwen is who I am following and keeping my eyes out for. 

Loving: The new Bath and Body Works hand sanitizes, denim, boots, and neutrals. 

Trying: to be more social. I'm trying to make more friends in school and spending more time with friends, as well as reconnecting with old friends. Also, I am trying to post more on my Instagram. Usually I am doing what I wore pictures, which really helps and encourages me to get ready instead of wearing basics. 

Looking forward to: The Fall and October. I'm excited for the cooler weather, layers, warm drinks, and falling leaves. In October I am seeing Beirut and a soccer game, my moms birthday, and I turn 22! I'm still unsure of what I want to do because I have such a  hectic schedule, but birthdays are always fun :)

Hello September

 Wow! Can you believe it's already September? I am so excited for this month (and the rest that follow). August wasn't my month so much; although it is a month I needed. I faced so many challenges and obstacles, but I believe it was in that time that I collected myself, reevaluated my priorities, and regained self confidence. And I like to think that everything August prepared me for will show in September and the many days and years to follow.
So why am I so excited for September? Well aside from all the parties and festivities, I will begin Fall quarter, I am working out (and crossing my fingers, that by the end of this month results will show), and I just feel a new breeze of wonderful things to come. The weather has been nice and I have been having a lot of me time as well as family time.

 Perhaps the reason why I'm so prepared and ready for fall to come is because I started off on the right foot. I woke up earlier than usual, got ready for the day, spent time with Allen before he went to work, passed by my mom's house, and came back home to do my daily workout and unplug. Yes! Just like my One Good Deed a Day journal, I have bought yet another one. This Unplug Every Day journal is very similar except that a lot of those good deeds are for yourself. I am turning a new leaf and treating myself better by not stressing so much, loving myself more, and straying away from things and those who bring negativity into my life. I used this book this morning and just relaxed and reflected on what plans and goals I have for today and this month (baby steps). You can purchase this journal here. I strongly encourage it, especially if you find yourself bringing stress home, not giving your surroundings attention, or simply want to better your life. There are so many fun and simple activities you can do for yourself, a partner, or stranger.

Throughout the Summer I was always found hiding behind a book. It mainly started when I began reading the Harry Potter series. Allen bought me the series collection and after every book we would watch the movie, and I would read another book before starting the next. Well this is where I am at. I am in the process starting Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, but I have picked up three other's along the way. I must admit that I got carried away and buried myself due to me not wanting to read HP. Due to the fact that I know what will happen to Sirius', I don't think I am ready for it. He has always been one of my favorite characters and after reading the book, I just fell more in love with him that I rather delay the time. It's silly, but I am going to tackle this book by the end of the week.

I initially picked up Gone Girl, because I really wanted to understand both perspectives more. The way Gillian Flynn writes from Amy's perspective, honestly makes my heart sympathize. If you liked the movie, you will love the book.

I am a huge fan of YA, and The Improbably Theory of Ana & Zak, was one of those books I just picked up and purchased. It's quirky, fun, and an easy read. The book's cover reminded me of my sister who is a math major, and it was so hard to not relate her and Ana. So I think I automatically configured the characters to mesh it with my sister's life. 

IF YOU LOVE POETRY, BEAUTY IN WORDS, OR ARE ALIVE I HIGHLY RECOMMEND Lullabies by Lang Leav. One day I went through a poetry craze and purchased ten books on poetry and I'm glad I did. I started just by reading Allen a poem each night before we go to bed, but it was so hard to contain myself, that I soon began reading five pages, ten pages, and so on. Leav writes so beautifully, and whether in a relationship or not I think there is room for everyone to relate. She had me as soon as I read her dedication, it reads: "For Michael, I love you, I do- you have my word. You have all my words." Right! I can say so many things about her book, but I think you should check it out yourself and share your thoughts with me :)

After so many requests, I do plan on sharing my current reading and books I'd recommend, but I am waiting for my library to further develop. I am trying to branch out from YA, so any recommendations would help. What are your favorite novels, authors, poems, and HP character? 

Being Two Places at Once

So far, July has been the most eventful month this year. I've made huge decisions (more on that later) and even gone to two places...at once. The beginning of this month had been a rough start, luckily my family had planned a road trip for this past week. We set off to the trip on July 6th, and arrived to Nevada that afternoon. Most of the time was spent on the strip or on Freemont, going into bars, listening to live music, collecting casino club cards, and living each day without worries. I am not a gambler, but it was fun spending a day going throughout the strip and collecting cards. Most of the time we would walk into bars and just order drinks while listening to cover bands and looking at street art. An illusionist actually used my sister for assistance, and I still do not know how he put her money in a lemon. We also saw Jersey Boys (my favorite night). This is my second time watching it and Allen's third, but it was my sisters and their husbands first and I am glad they loved it as much as we do. If you are ever in Las Vegas, this is a must see! In our hotel, there is also a pool where you can swim with the fishes and sharks...but I made the mistake of watching Shark Week during my free time. I also went to see Hoover Dam, which was pretty intense. The borderline of Nevada and Arizona is shown in the center, one step to the left and I am in Nevada, to the right I am in Arizona. 

On Thursday we drove to Laughlin, Arizona. Our first stop was to see the Great Canyon, 1 of the 7 Great Wanders. The time spent at Laughlin was more outdoors and adventurous. I rode a jet ski for the first time and I loved it! I didn't drive it because after seeing so many people fall, I got cold feet (ha!) Yet, I stood up while being passenger and decided that would be an even better idea. I didn't take many pictures because too much fun. But I really needed this vacation and it not worrying about next day feels amazing. Here's a fun fact: In Arizona, I was unable to order a drink because the waiter couldn't accept my license since it was vertical. But across the street, I am able to order as many drinks as I want. So I finally lived my Walk to Remember dream, and was at two places at once... now onto that butterfly tattoo ;)

Planning Fun Stuff!

I recently started planning that I've been so excited to share what I have been working on. I've seen so many photos of people getting creative with their planners, that I thought I thought I should give it a shot. I have so many unused planners, card stock, wash tape, stickers, and ideas, that I needed to put it towards something and planning was the perfect answer. There are so many benefits of planning (the creativity is just an extra bonus). I always over look events and agree to several plans that clash with one another or do not stick to simple plans (workouts, book goals, good deeds, etc.)

Here's how I set up my planner:

+ I like to plan week by week instead of month by month. So every Wednesday I set aside an hour or so to plan for the upcoming week. 

+ Doodles and stickers give a fun look.

+ Add motivational quotes. Need some sunshine? Just open your planner...and look forward to your upcoming events!

+ Lots of color!! Markers, crayons, pens, you name it. 

+ Highlight your highlights. I love having days off and making it known, or pay day! 

+ I include my work schedule, important dates, holidays, and goals. Even if I already know I have to work, it still gives me an idea of how my day will look. 

My planner is from Target as well as the paper. However, the decorations are from various shops here and the doodles are from yours truly :)

 

I recently went to Target and saw that they are coming out with new patterns, so I'm perhaps going to purchase a separate one just for school.

Do you plan? Or know of any cute sites that sell planning kits. Feel free to comment any tips :)

Birchbox: Beauty Solutions

I decided to subscribe with Birchbox after reading Cam's blog and realizing that this might make me more experimental with make-up and beauty products. I'm a typical eyeliner, mascara, and a hint of lipstick let's go kind of girl. I do not look into things because, well one makeup is expensive ( I rather buy dresses and food) and two because I am too lazy (20 minutes to get pretty or some extra snooze time?) However, after signing up with Birchbox, I have found some awesome products that I'd like to share because they are worth trying. So this is what I received this month.

+Dear Clark Volumizing Hair Tonic
This is for thin, flat, or tired hair that could use a boost. It's supposed to bounce, lift, and shine. I get really excited when I receive hair products, since I'm in the midst of getting my hair to grow healthy and fast. I haven't yet used it because I am currently trying other solutions and I do not want to overwhelm my hair (not even sure if thats a thing).

+derma e Evenly Radiant Brightening Day Creme
This is supposed to help with dull complexion and uneven skin tone for much smother and luminous skin. I currently do not have any issues with my skin, and I am scared of trying anything that might irritate it and cause some form of breakout. So if anyone has used this, I'd love to know how it works for you. Meanwhile, this will sit in the makeup cabinet.

+Laura Geller Beauty Baked Blush-n-Brighten
I LOVE LOVE LOVE this. This was the first thing I noticed when I opened my box and tried it that same day. As I said earlier, I am trying to experiment with products, so whenever I get makeup I just swoon and get antsy to apply as soon as possible. I never cared for blush and it wasn't part of my routine, but now I wear it everyday. What I love most is that this one in particular gives a healthy natural looking flush. Somehow this ties my makeup all together and I have noticed a huge difference when I wear it. So for any make-up/blush lovers, I definitely recommend this.

+Supergoop! Advanced Anti-Aging Eye Cream
This is for the undereye area showing signs of aging or lack of sleep. I have yet to try this and do plan on it because I do have bags underneath my eye...it's those addition 20 minutes of sleeping I choose.

+Whish Three Whishes Body Butter
I love lotion and always carry some with me. This one smells wonderful and gives a smooth rich feeling. I do not really have rough or dry skin, so I honestly just use it for the smell.

If you like all of this and love receiving cute packages in the mail as much as I do, you can subscribe to Birchbox here.

Currently

I've been very absent lately due to school, work, and family events. There has been so much going on that ever since October hit, that I completely lost track of what day it was. So I just wanted to take a breather and enjoy things that I am currently doing. I got this little idea from other bloggers and thought it was a neat idea.
Reading: Thanks to school, I have so many books and short stories occupying my time. But I am making room for Little Women and Gillian Flynn's Gone Girl. After watching the movie I really wanted to read the book to see how much more went into it (I'm trying not to add any spoilers). I'm very excited because this is different than what I normally read and it adds a different vibe to my collection. Nonetheless, the film persuaded me enough to know it will be a great story.

Listening: I must admit that I have fallen short on the new tunes. I keep going back to my favorite artists instead of keeping an ear out. So If there is anything you would recommend, please do so! Kassandra put an amazing playing over at The Desert Poppy, titled Songs for Sweater Weather that fits perfectly with my taste.

Looking forward to: There are so many things I love about October. Last week I celebrated my mom's birthday. On Wednesday, I TURN TWENTY-FUN! Although I will have school for the most part, there is one thing I am determined to do and that is purchase/drink my first alcoholic beverage at Disneyland...California Adventures! Then the following week, Allen had requested a vacation week from his job, so we are definitely going to go out on mini getaways. And lastly, Halloween. From decorations to dressing up, I am too excited.

Reminding myself: To take a breather and appreciate my surroundings. I have been so caught up, and having that overwhelming feeling lately that I miss the good stuff around me. I have horrible time management skills, that I forget to leave some me time in this busy schedule. So I am planning my days out more accordingly and knocking out homework assignments at school so by the time I get home, I can dedicate that time to Allen, Tulip, and myself.

Working On: Catching up on my letters (Sorry Cam). I have bought so much stationary that I just want to decorate the heck out of my letters that I don't realize how much time has gone by. Rest assure, it will get to you dear. Also, I love making my nephews, sisters, and parents goody-baskets for my favorite Holidays (Valentine's Day, Halloween, and Christmas). I have bought everything I need to fill them in, now it's time for the decorating!

Drinking: I am a hugeeeee tea lover and am only five stores away from Teavana. So I am getting into this fall full of holiday season through my teas. I recently purchased their Pumpkin Spice Brulee Oolong Tea and Spice Apple Cider Rooibos Tea! Very delicious, highly recommended.

Wearing: Lots of hats, denim jackets, and dresses! I recently went on a shopping a spree (Happy early birthday, yay!) and bought so many items. But the main thing was hats and dresses. Dresses is always a must for me but I am falling in love with baby doll dresses all over again. I also ended up bringing 3 new hats home and I love the way they dress my outfits and tie them together. I also purchased joggers and sweat pants for my bummy days at school (the ones you can tell I stayed up all night doing homework) and I must admit I like them a lot more than I thought I would.

Writing: I do not want to lose the readers I have made. So I have written some draft ideas down that I am looking forward to writing. Among those ideas are: My birthday adventures, how to dress outfits up and down (with a few little touches), Allen & Alma Mini Getaway, and Halloween basket tricks...and treats to pull off!

Thank you for still reading, and I hope you are having a lovely weekend!

Advice from a college student

School is this week, and I am equally excited and nervous for this quarter. I have prepared myself for this upcoming school year with giving myself a pep talk with what's going to work for me and whats going to weigh me down. I wanted to share some of these things with those who are struggling and stressing out or even for those who are new to college.
As I have mentioned before, I'm a Liberal Studies student in the hopes of becoming a kindergarten teacher. But I have not always been interested in this field; it was last year that I changed majors. I actually started off as an English major. And although so many people tried to change my mind about rethinking this decision, but I went on with it for two reasons: I fell in love with the subject during my entire high school years (thanks to my super rad teachers) and I had my future based around it.
So here are my first two sets of advice:
1. High school is nothing like college.
I know I know, how can someone think they are the same? But little freshman me thought of them to be similar and transitioning was a very difficult thing for me. Professors, students, scheduling, books/supplies, and even parking are different. Be prepared. Honestly, everything I learned in high school did not come to use in college. I had to figure everything all out on my own. So learn about your major, talk to advisors and professors like they are your best friends.... Believe me it will help you!
2. Things change... Have a fall back plan.
So I went into college wanting to become an English major based on the lifestyle I created for myself in the future. I wanted to become a magazine writer/editor and move to New York as soon as I got out of college. I had it all figured out, and I had mentioned that my precious teachers inspired me to pursue something in the English writing field. But the more classes I took, I just fell out of love with the subject entirely. I dreaded reading, writing, learning the history, and I began to feel that I was no longer doing it because I wanted to but because I had to. Also, the more life went on I realized how closely knit of a family I have and how hard it would be for me without them in my life. All of my immediate family live in the same city and I live two streets away from my mom and even then I get anxious when I do not see them. As Allen and I plan for the future, we agreed that we didn't want to raise a family in such a busy city away from who we love most. Of course we would still take vacations over there, but I also can't live somewhere that isn't 45 minutes away from Disneyland, haha, and we already have the perfect city in mind.
3. Ask yourself: Do you want your hobby to become your job?
This question may be a simple yes, but for me it didn't work that way. I went into college loving literature and English and then two years later, I made a complete 180. You would think that choosing your career should be based on something you love, but for me, I was no longer doing it for myself or for the love itself. Instead I chose my career based on my strengths and things I am good at. I love helping kids, teaching, talking, and just being around them watching them grow. I am creative, passionate, and patient; what better area than teaching right? Also, I get to still do what I love by blogging. I may have not been the writer in a column of your favorite magazine, but I still get to enjoy what it is and how I like it.

With that being said, I spent almost three years taking pure English/upper division courses....and when this happened I didn't know what to do.

4. It's perfectly normal and okay to have a mental breakdown.
I actually think that if you don't then there's a problem. After I decided that it was time to choose something else, I was completely lost. I didn't know what to do, where to begin, or how to find help. I even wanted to change schools and do something completely different like culinary arts; but that didn't fall through. So then I figured that I should go into teaching; I love kids, creativity, and I can utilize majority of the courses I have taken towards it. But I think I figured all of this out as soon as I broke down and let myself express all the stress, anxiety, and difficulty I have been going through. Whether its your midterm/final, overbearing homework, or just the thought of college, know that if you have ever been put through this that it's okay and it just means your doing something right :)

5. Lastly, as long as you know where you are going, it doesn't matter how long it takes.
Sure it will be lovely to finish in four years, and not that it's not possible, but that's not always the case. Everyone is going through different circumstances in their personal life that can interfere with school. Ever since I graduated from high school, I had a job...for the most part two, and one time even three! It's my fourth year of college, and I am not as close to finishing as I would like. I am constantly asked about when I will be done, how much more I have left, and why is it taking so long. It's really difficult to explain to people who do not know exactly what I have experienced but the best reply I can give is that I'm not sure when I am going to finish, but I am. And I think that's good enough; as long as you know you will finish, then that's what matters. Slow and steady wins the race.

Flash cards and Post-its are a must! 

These are my major words of advice. This does not apply to everyone and I may be in the completely opposite of the spectrum but I just wanted to share what my experience at college has taught me.

Now here are some tips that I wish I had known, or at least done out of habit.
+Socialize and make at least three friends in each class.
Talk to people around you and exchange phone numbers or emails. This will save you a ton of time when you get sick and need someone to send you the notes, homework, or discussions. A good ice breaker is asking them what their major is and why they chose it.
+Utilize everything your school has to offer.
The end of my second year I found out we had a health center opened to students for free and therapists on campus! Also the library, computer labs, gym, tutors, office hours, and study groups can be found easily and are extremely helpful!
+Follow up with your advisors
My advisors answer all of my questions and even help me stay on track so I do not fall behind. I try to visit every other month, but as long as you go once a quarter you will be fine.
+Give yourself incentives
They could either be small or big. For me, it was if I passes an exam or a project I could buy tickets to a concert or if I devote five hours to non stop studying with no interferences whatsoever, I can buy a dress.
+Learn to balance and prioritize
I was talking to one of my lovely friends at work, and discussing how we still have a long way to go and how it's difficult to worry about school when you are worrying about financial issues and how you are going to pay for that without working. Sometimes, it feels better to put your job as a priority because that's helping you pay for your bills, food, gas, etc. But when you think about the overall picture, the degree you earned will help you pay for you, your family, and anything else you need. So look into scholarships, grants, and I don't want to say it but loans. And if you can't take a shift or have to change your availability to suit your time in and out of school, then by all means do so. If they cannot work with your schedule, then find another job because you will need to have a strong support system when your in college.

I hope I shined some light on anyone going to school. It's really difficult and I do not think anyone understands unless they go through the experience themselves. If you are going to college, what works for you?

My Part Time Lover and Full Time Friend

Today is our four year and three monthiversay of being together that I thought it would be fun to share our small little love story and how we came to be.

I had seen him Allen during my freshman year and was completely smitten, but I never got his name or saw him again after that, until the summer of 2010. The first time I was introduced, and sat down in the same room as him was on May 7, 2010, I was invited by one of our mutual friends to go watch Iron Man 2 with all friends. We then, as a group, went bowling, swimming, and went to the movies again.
On June 11, we all went to the movies again to watch The A-Team, drink Starbucks, and check out a blade less fan at Best Buy. My sister was on her way to pick me up at the theater, but we were on the other side of the streets, so I remember Allen holding my hand and running through the lighted trees to make it there before my sister. Well that night I got home, and called my friend Carol telling her all about it, and how I want to make a bold move and tell him how much I like him...and I did.
I remember everything about June 15. I ditched summer school and went over to his house and took my friend Kathy along so I wouldn't stay too long. When I got to his house we were just sitting on his couch, eating strawberries, and talking. After a while I told him I had to go back to school. As I am hugging him bye he says, "Before you go, will you be my girlfriend?" When I say yes, he gives me a kiss on my forehead. I have never had an actual boyfriend, so this whole thing was new and perfect in every way.

We have gone to every concert together, held each others hand through events, seen every movie, listened to every song, gone through many different haircuts, been on every ride at Disneyland, and received a kiss on my forehead every night. A successful relationship requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Of this I am certain, I constantly fall in love with Allen just by the way he talks, smiles, walks, laughs, and even just seeing him fall asleep next to me is the greatest privilege.
When I think back to the many times we could've met, had I found him freshman year, I'm glad that this is the story we got.

This day is also very important to me because my youngest nephew turns one! Happy Birthday Alexander. I love you very much and cannot wait to watch you grow!

Yesterday's Adventures is Today's Memory

 Yesterday, Allen and I enjoyed a lovely afternoon together. We started the day as any other day but then he asked me if there was anything I would like to do. If there is anything I ever want to do, it is to go to buy records, visit the shops, and just stroll around in my favorite city. So I changed into a floral two piece and we were out the door.
When I go shopping for records, I almost never know what I go in for. I have even purchased two exact records, and own all of my must haves. So instead, I enjoy looking through every alphabet letter, finding great deals, and just purchasing. I ended walking out with ABBA Greatest hits for $5, Bruce Springsteen's Born in the USA for $10, and the soundtrack from The Perks of Being a Wallflower. I usually end spending at least $20 for each record (new or used) so when I saw the price for ABBA and Bruce Springsteen, I knew I couldn't leave them behind. We then went walking around the little shops nearby and I picked up the cutest postcards and another adorable postcard set. The nice lady even invited me to some fun arts & craft's workshops that I will definitely be going to.

I mean how cute are these? Stationary is my absolute favorite thing to spend money on and receive as a gift. Especially now that I have two lovely pen-pals, I have to make sure my letters are just as lovely. If interest in writing letters to one another, send me an email!
Afterwards Allen took us out for lunch to one of our favorite spaghetti joints. YUM! On our way home we stopped by the mall to pick up a few things. I scored two Wes Anderson films to add to my nearly finished collection. Although I have seen (and love) Fantastic Mr. Fox, The Life Aquatic is completely new to me! Allen also spoiled himself by buying a new video game called Destiny.

And of course, if Allen and I were going to spoil ourselves...Tulip is going to get in on the goodies. We bought her new treats and toys and clothing to get her into this upcoming holiday. We still haven't decided on what she will be for Halloween, if she should match with us or do her own little thing, but as soon as the weather gets cooler, she will be sporting as mommy's little pumpkin. I am also excited to announce that we are going to put Tulip into dog training to become a licensed and certified therapy dog! She will start in two weeks, and I will keep you all posted.

Yesterday was a very fun, much needed, simple day out...and we are still enjoying it. Allen is playing his new video game, tulip is chewing on her new toys, and I am about to get started on writing out postcards. Adventures that are two-days long? Yes, please!

My Recent Hurrah

Ever since I began selling my clothes on-line, I have rethought my decision making when shopping. I used to be very impulsive when shopping and just bought things at first glance, and never took a trip to a fitting room! And sadly, I would hang it up on my closet and more than likely never wear it again since it would be buried in the 500 dresses I had. So now I have compiled a list of what to look for and what to do when shopping. 

I have not yet established my sense of style yet; I am constantly changing between quirky, boho, and preppy. So I look more at what the item offers like:

+Pretty Patterns

I am a sucker for patterns, especially multiple patterns. About 95% of my wardrobe has patterns ranging from stripes, polkadots, floral, checkers, paisley, and even cute animals. 

+Color Scheme

I am not a harsh critic on the coloring on patterned items, I love a variety of colors on a dress, shirt, or romper. However, on plain solid items, the first thing I look at  is it's color. I like wearing pastels and light soft hues, my current favorite is the off white. Since I hardly do not own any plain tops (or tops for that matter) I purchased the blush pink top on the far right simply based on it's pretty hue. 

+Texture/Add On's

Have you ever seen a shirt that is simply adorable but it has some ruffles where it shouldn't and you have to put it back on the shelf? That's me most of the time. I have fallen in love with so many items but they always have studs or patches on them and I immediately hang it back up. Also, sometimes things fit wrong because they are itchy and utterly uncomfortable. The fleck sweatshirt in the middle surprised me at the fitting rooms.

When shopping I first look at the patterns, color, and then the texture. If this passes the visual test, it then moves on to the second round...fitting rooms!

In the fitting rooms, I look at the length, fit, and of course if it also looks nice on me. 

+Length

Dresses especially have to fit at a certain length on leg. I am not quite sure where it is, but if its below or above this point, I really have to think about purchasing the item. 

+Fit

Most of my clothes are well fitted, but sometimes I go in to try on how loose an item it. I like wearing dainty loose dresses/shirts for my lazy days. Sometimes dresses are the perfect loose, where you can easily slip in with out struggling through zippers or buttons and its. Other times, they are so loose you can fit another person inside that same dress...not cute. 

So after all this, my sister and I like to do something called Process of Elimination. This is where we plant ourselves on a chair, add up the subtotal of everything, and ask ourselves questions:

+Is ________ worth this amount of money?

+What else can I wear with this?

My best friend Lucia, taught me how to utilize this question when making purchases. Pretty much if you can make three different outfits, including shoes, with this particular item, then your good to go. If you have to purchase something else then it has to stay. 

+When will I wear this?

My sister and I will do this a lot. Usually we will attend the same party and event, so if we can easily name an occasion where we will wear it then it's good to go. 

So after all these questions, we usually end up leaving 5 items, sometimes even half. But I leave happy at what I purchased and happier at the money I saved :)

Take a Look Inside My Bag

Today I'd like to show you what is inside my bag. I think it would be fun for you to see my essentials that I carry everyday and everywhere with me. I am not huge on big brand name purses, so have either this purse, a green backpack/purse, or a small black purse with me. This one in particular was purchased at Forever21, I fell in love with the mustard yellow and buckles. So here's whats inside:

1. Kindle: I began to carry my Kindle around when I found out I had Wifi at work, haha. I am usually at the mall 50% of the time, so I like to have this when I take my lunch and want to write quick drafts for blog posts.
2. One Good Deed A Day: I usually carry a book with me, but right now I carry this around so I have it on hand for whenever I want to flip a page and act out a good deed.
3. Wallet: I am more of a card person. I hardly ever have cash on me, when I do it's like Christmas. So I carry this small wallet around filled with my license, Disneyland pass, Debit card, etc. Comes in really handy and saves me from filling it up with trash and receipts.
4. Perfume: I like to carry around this small Clinique Happy perfume bottle in case I run out the door and forget to spray something on. It has saved me various times since I pretty much always run out the door for work because I rather nap or eat instead of get ready.
5. Battery: An extra battery (charger) for your phone is always a goof thing to carry around. My phone has been dying really quickly so I bought this for 5$, and although it doesn't charge fully, 70% is always better than a dead phone.
6. Phone: I have an iPhone 4s (upgrading in December, Yay!) but I was currently using it to take these pictures, so here is my phone case :)
7. Eyedrops: At the beginning of this year, my eyes would always get irritated as soon as I stepped into work. I couldn't last 5 minutes without beginning to cry and ask my co-workers if my eyes were red or if they saw something in them, so I now carry this little fella.
8. Sunglasses: Allen bought me these Ray-ban Wayfarers almost three years ago and they are essentials for me. My Instagram is a perfect example of how often I use these guys.
9. Lipstick: My lips are full and light, so I like to add a touch of lipstick to make my lips stand out more. This one is my favorite, it's Milani's Dark Cherry, it isn't expensive at all and does the trick.
10. Earphones: For when I am on my break or shopping around, and want to listen to my own music instead of the ones that are playing. After working at the mall, you hear the same songs practically at every store.
11. Notebook: I use this notebook to write down ideas for blog posts, keep track of my spending, grocery lists, and anything I need to remember. I mainly use this for blog post ideas because I events just happen out of nowhere and I get a sudden idea, but I wouldn't be able to remember by the time I got home, so this is my solution.
12. Tissue: you know, sometimes you get the sniffles..but for me it's more that I need tissues on hand.
13. EOS egg: I think everyone can agree with me, that these are beneficial. My favorite is the mint flavor, one for color two for scent. Sadly, these are too big for my pockets, so in the bag it goes.
14. Tajin: I am extremely delicate when it comes to spicy food, candy, or snacks... I can't even finish a small bag of Hot Cheetos! But for some reason, Tajin is the only thing that I can eat and it makes a great topping for my fruit. So why is it my bag? Well one reason is that Allen got it for me since it reminded him of me. But for the most part, when I go to Disneyland I like to get slices mangos, but sometimes they are out of Tajin, so this little bottle allows me to enjoy my mangos :) Also any time I see a fruit stand, I like to purchase fruit but they usually carry Pico de Gallo that is too spicy for me.
15. Keys: no explanation needed, right.
16. Brush (and hair ties): Messy hair buns have been my go-to hair do all this year. Like I said, I usually run out the door and get ready in my car while driving to work. Even then, I usually work doing task like things (shipment, visuals, stocking, replenishment, etc.) and I work up a sweat.

So this is what can be found in my bag. Occasionally, bobby pins and loose change will find its way in there, but these are my essentials. I actually didn't realize how many things can fit in here, but that's how a woman's bag works. What can be found in your bag? Do we share any same items?

One Good Deed a Day

It's the first day of September, and I couldn't have started it off in a better way: doing good deeds. I bought this journal almost two weeks ago, but wanted to start on the first of a month (easier to keep track and the minor OCD part of me kicked in). Although I tend to write in journals/diaries for no more than a week, I really want to stay committed to this one. When I first saw this journal, I bought it impulsively because I loved the cover and I'm a sucker for journals; but, as I flipped the pages I loved the idea of doing something nice everyday and I am really glad I didn't leave it on the shelf. 

There are 365 different ideas to complete throughout the year. Also, the deeds aren't just meant for strangers. There are some things you can do for your friend, partner, and yourself! There is also some space to write down a reflection about how you felt doing this deed. 

This is the one I am going to do today. I accidentally wrote that I already completed this deed (you're supposed to write it in at the end of the day and then reflect on it) but I plan on completing it. I also thought it was a good idea since I will be spending the afternoon working at the mall and their will be many Labor Day sales. So this will test me to say no and save my money. 

I am excited to finish this journal while feeling good about making someone else's day by doing small deeds. I also hope to turn many of these ideas into habit. I will be posting some that I have done that throughout the year as well. If you would like to purchase this journal as well, it can be found at Target for $15. And if you'd like, here's one you can do too!

Vinted

I've used Vinted for two months now, and it has been one of my most favorite apps. I will more than likely mention it a lot, and I have several links to it, so I thought it would be a great idea to tell you about it! So Vinted is another app/website you can use to sell, buy, or swap your clothes. But I think Vinted is much more simple and has many features available. 

The Basics

You can either sell, buy, or connect with other Vinties. When you sell you also have the option to swap items; I have not swapped, but I have seen people write about what great deals they have made through swapping. In addition, I have not purchased anything yet (only because I am trying to make money and not fall into my old shopping addiction ways) So I will talk about what I do know...SELLING! So Vinted keeps 19% of what you make, but after selling several items I didn't even notice it and it sure beats having your items collect dust in the back of your closet. Also, the buyer pays for shipping, so all you have to worry about is posting your items up and packaging it (the FUN stuff). 

This is an example of my packaging. 

So another thing you can do, is connect with other Vinties either through messages, forums, or blogs. Many people message you for more details on your items, but occasionally you will get someone who tells you of what a great job you are doing or how awesome your closet is. The forums are very fun, entertaining and a great place to talk if you want to make friends, ask questions, vent, or just write.

The Cons

Like every good thing, there are some downfalls. Occasionally, you will get some people who will try to get you to sell your items for a lot less, but thats everywhere and you can always refuse. 

I've never been scammed, but I can only assume it has happened. Something I suggest is to check out the persons reviews because it will save you from making any decisions you are thinking about doing and to see who you are doing business with. Also the mods are extremely helpful and take scamming, bullying, and unfriendly users seriously. I have messaged them four times and they have always helped out and answered all of my questions. 

Other than that, I cannot put my finger on what else is bad. 

I definitely recommend using this if your looking to sell, buy, or meet new people. I have made extra cash on clothes that have been sitting in the back of my closet or that has never been worn. Also, ever since using this, I have become smarter about shopping and saving money. If you would like to visit my closet click here or the cute little tab under my sidebar photo. 

Allen's Twenty-fun Festivities

Last week was Allen's birthday, and the celebrations continued until yesterday. Allen turned 21, or as I like to say, twenty-fun, on August 12. The previous day was my friend's birthday. So my sisters Liz and Reyna, Allen and I, and the birthday girl Angel and her lovely son Tristan went out to celebrate by having dinner. We then ended the night with some bowling fun. Happy 20th Birthday Angel!

Right after bowling at 12:00 am, my sisters wanted to be the first people to take Allen out for his first purchase of beer. I was unable to go since I am not 21 yet, but thankfully my sister was able to capture the moment for me! Funny thing, on the ride there my boyfriend realized his license expired that same day. So afterwards we all went back to my moms house to watch The Office and enjoy Allen's first purchase. 

We then had lunch at one of our favorite spaghetti joints, called Vince's, with my family. Here we shared laughs, ate delicious food, and opened gifts. I usually have a "theme" for the way I wrap Allen's gifts. Last year I went with Mickey Mouse but this year I decided to go with good ol' patriotic United States of America...with a hint of Alma. After watching the World Cup, Allen became highly into the sport and showing more interest and appreciation for our country. It actually got a little bit out of hand that I told him he cannot mention it more than 5 times a day unless he wanted to buy me Pinkberry. But for his birthday I decided to go with something I knew he loved so I went with the red, white, and blue colors using polkadots and striped to add my little touch. As for his gifts, I had a really tough time choosing what I wanted to get him. I had a lot of ideas but after living together, it's kind of like you already have everything due to sharing. And I wanted to get him something that was just for him. So after much thinking and decision making, I came up with giving him: a completely new wardrobe, books, and tons of printed socks. As well as these, which I consider my favorite gifts this year:

 "The Curious Bartender," and a personalized flask that reads: Allen Reagan, Everyone's got a little captain in 'em! While shopping at Anthro, I saw Allen's eyes light up and I knew I had to buy it. As for the flask, I used to buy him personalized gifts for every occasion and thought I bought everything I could. But one day, while playing Kings Cup at my sisters house, my brother in law said "I am going to have a flask with Captain Morgan just for you," to Allen (since he doesn't take beer in so well and Captain Morgan is he favorite alcoholic beverage), and I looked up and just knew. So I got him this flask with his First and Middle name, a quote that can be found on Captain Morgan bottles, and a little anchor because his dad used to be in the navy and I always try to incorporate his dad in anything I can.
Coincidentally, my sister and brother in law also got him a flask paired with a Captain Morgan bottle. We then went to my mom's house where my sisters gave him their gifts which included: A sash, birthday ribbon, alcohol, and a new game for games night! We ended the night by making drinks from the recipe book and cake!

The next day we celebrated part two with my godson Jayden at Disneyland. Because what is a birthday with out some Disneyland? This is the first time we were able to go on all the rides with Jayden because he now reaches the hight limit! Aside from that I bought Allen and I grape soda pins from Up! 

So after all that, yesterday we went out to dinner at one of our favorite restaurants, Farrell's, with Allen's brother and his family. We absolutely love coming here for dates because the food, ice-cream, service, and environment is so much fun and one of a kind. It's ten times better when you are celebrating any occasion. 

Also, the day after, August 13th was my nephews birthday. Happy 6th birthday to him! Heres a picture of all three birthdays :)